You two dated for 4 years but then noticed her weird behavior changesYou two dated for 4 years but then noticed her weird behavior changes such as her not letting you hang out with your friends, being around anyone, go out at all other than your job..overall being overly clingy and it annoyed you to the point of breaking up. She was devastated that you wanted to break up with her but accepted it..until. she came back the next day. knocking on your door and begging you to take her back, everyday.